Ida Issadore Boughner Marries A Different Man

This next post was suppose to move on to recount Ida's death and burial, however, since my last post I have received a marriage record that confirms the fact that Ida married a different man after her marriages and divorces from John T.R. Ladd. I had found this marriage reference in an online index of Oklahoma Court Records at this link: http://www1.odcr.com/search.php I had found a reference of an Ida I. Ladd who married an Ephriam Turner Beatty on 5 May 1927 in Sapulpa, Creek County, Oklahoma. So, I sent to the Creek County Court Clerk and requested a copy of the original marriage record. The record arrived and after reviewing it, I was certain that this was my Ida Issadore (Boughner)(Debolt) Ladd. The marriage record lists Ida's age as 64 years old and that would be the correct age for her since she was born 5 August 1864. Not to mention that there was only 1 Ida I. Ladd living in the Creek County area at this time that would have fit the age on the marriage record and that is my great-great-grandmother.

I do not believe that this marriage lasted very long and they most likely divorced sometime between 1927-1930 since Ida is listed in the 1930 Youngstown, Mahoning County, Ohio census in the household of her daughter and son-in-law, listed as Ida I. Ladd and a widow. I have found that Ephriam Turner Beatty died 3 August 1938, so she was not his widow but most likely they were divorced. So, a search for their divorce record will have to be done.

I am attaching the image of the marriage record for Ida and Ephriam. Just when you think you have an ancestor figured out, they surprise you!

Ida Issadore Boughner, Divorced Again and Possible New Marriage

I continue with the life of my Great-Great Grandmother Ida Issadore (Boughner)(Debolt) Ladd. The years from 1925 when John and Ida Ladd vacationed in Put-In Bay, Ohio and the day she died 7 July 1944 are not completely clear or completely documented at this point. I am continuing to unravel this section of her life. What I do know is that John T.R. Ladd and Ida I. Ladd divorced again sometime between 1925-1930, this time for good. I believe I can narrow down the time frame of their divorce to 1925-1927 because of some new found evidence that Ida was married to another man, Ephriam Turner Beatty, on 5 May 1927 in Sapulpa, Creek County, Oklahoma. I located a reference to a marriage for Ephriam Turner Beatty to an Ida I. Ladd on 5 May 1927 in Sapulpa, Creek County, Oklahoma online at the database: http://www1.odcr.com/search.php, which is a database of court records for Oklahoma. I have requested a copy of the actual record from the Creek County Court Clerk and hopefully when I receive the record, it will confirm or deny my suspicions. I contacted an Ephriam Turner Beatty researcher that I found on Ancestry.com and asked him if he knew of this marriage and he said that he didn't but was interested in finding out if the marriage is between his Ephriam Turner Beatty and my Ida I. Ladd. This Beatty researcher tells me that Ephriam was a carpenter and blacksmith and that he owned a wood shop in Sapulpa, Creek County, Oklahoma. If this marriage is proven, this will make a total of 4 marriages for Ida, 2 of them to John T.R. Ladd. Also, if this marriage is proven, I will also have to locate a divorce for Ephriam and Ida because by the 1930 census Ida is living back in Mahoning County, Ohio and listed as widowed. Since Ephriam died in 1938, they almost had to divorce. I will report my findings on this marriage and divorce as I have proof.

Ida Issadore (Boughner)(Debolt) Ladd is listed in the 1930 Peidmont Drive, Youngstown City, Mahoning County, Ohio U.S. Federal Population Schedule Census that was enumerated on 11 April 1930. She is in the household of her daughter and son-in-law, Bertram and Cecil O'Neale. Ida is listed as being age 68, a widow, that she married for the first time at age 18, can read and write, speaks English and was born in Ohio.

It is uncertain at this point why Ida moved back to Ohio from Sapulpa, Creek County, Oklahoma. From the 1930 census until her death in 1944, I have no records for her. That period of time is something I need to concentrate on to fill in the blanks.

The photo I am including with this post is of Ida Issadore (Boughner)(Debolt) Ladd. I do not know when this photo was taken, however, by looking at the photo of Ida I would say it was taken late in her life. I would guess that she was in her 60's or 70's in this photo.

My next post will continue with Ida's death and burial.

Ida Issadore Boughner Happier Times, Seemingly

The journey and marriage of Ida Issadore Boughner to John T.R. Ladd continued after their remarriage in 1921. I was given 2 original post cards from a distant cousin named Mary-Jo Arn, a great-granddaughter of Ida. Mary-Jo and I connected over the internet and have shared information. When Mary-Jo's mother died she found a large collections of family memorabilia in her attic and has been going through it over the past few years. Mary-Jo has sent me selected items and photo's that pertain to Ida and her children of which I am very grateful.

Two of the items that she has sent me are 2 post cards. Both of them are from the Put-In Bay area of Ottawa County, Ohio. They were from John and Ida Ladd to Ida's daughter and son-in-law Joe and Mollie Arn, the grandparents of Mary-Jo Arn who gave me these post cards.

The first post card is of "Jolly Quartette at Put-In Bay, O" and depicts 4 bathing beauties. On the others side of the post card there is message from John T.R. Ladd that says "Put-In Bay, I am on wings of love, J.T.R. Ladd". The post card is addressed to Joe Arn, North Jackson, Ohio. The post mark on the card is 15 August 1925.

The second post card is a picture post card and was never written on or mailed. The photo is of John T.R. Ladd and Ida I. Ladd and they look like they are sitting in a boat. I believe that this is actually a prop at a photographers studio or a photographers booth at Put-In Bay. It even says on the boat prop "Put-In Bay". Looking at the faces of John and Ida, they don't look very happy and John certainly doesn't look like he is on "the wings of love" as he mentioned in the other post card.

John and Ida were still living in Sapulpa, Creek County, Oklahoma during this time and I suspect that they decided to vacation at Put-In Bay, Ottawa County, Ohio in 1925. After this trip things must have gone sour because by 1930 Ida would be a divorced woman again. The story continues in my next post.

Ida Issadore Boughner Remarries John Talbert Renow Ladd

Continuing to document the life of my Great-Great Grandmother Ida Issadore Boughner we find that after her divorce from her second husband John Talbert Renow Ladd on 4 June 1920 the couple remarries on 24 January 1921. Thinking about the timing of this divorce and remarriage I find that the final divorce decree was filed on 4 June 1920 and the divorce was not to be truly finalized according to the divorce papers until 4 December 1920, 6 months after the final decree. This means that John and Ida remarried 2 months after their divorce was finalized. I have always been perplexed by this action on the part of my Great-Great-Grandmother. If the accusations that she made against John T.R.Ladd in the divorce were true, why would she remarry him? I hope to find the answer to that question as my research continues.

John and Ida remarry on 24 January 1921 at Ida's residence in Sapulpa, Creek County, Oklahoma. They were married by H.W. Woods, Pastor of Christian Church of Sapulpa. The two witnesses listed on the marriage record are Mrs. H.W. Woods, wife of the minister and Miss Ina Ladd. Miss Inda Ladd is the daughter of John T.R. Ladd from a previous marriage. According to the marriage record John T.R. Ladd is age 63 and Ida I. Debolt is age 68. When Ida received the divorce in 1920 she asked to be restored to her previous name of Ida I. Debolt. So, on this marriage record she is listed as Ida I. Debolt.

I am including the marriage record from 24 January 1921 with this post. The life of John T.R. Ladd and Ida I. Ladd continues in Sapulpa, Creek County, Oklahoma, at least for a time. I will continue the journey in my next post.

Ida Issadore Boughner Files For Divorce

I continue with the life of my Great-Great Grandmother Ida Issadore Boughner. At this point in her life she has moved out West to Sapulpa, Creek County, Oklahoma to start a new life for herself. She has met and married John Talbert Renow Ladd on the 1st of May 1915 in Creek County, Oklahoma. In the 1920 Sapulpa Township, Creek County, Oklahoma U.S. Federal Population Schedule Census John and Ida Ladd are living at 18 East Dewey Street. They are both listed with the occupation of manager of a second hand retail furniture store. I have wondered if they actually owned this second hand furniture store or if they managed it for someone else. Something I need to dig into more.

Also in 1920, Ida files for a divorce from John T.R. Ladd on May 3, 1920, only 5 years after they were married. According to the Divorce Petition #8339 filed in Creek County Distirct Court, Ida's reason for divorce is due to "extreme cruelty toward the said Plaintiff. That said Defendant has been quarrelsom, morose and abusive towards the Plaintiff and continually finding fault with the Plaintiff as though she were a hired servant, and the conduct of the said Defendant has become unbearable to the Plaintiff and the Plaintiff cannot continue to live with the said Defendant as her husband". The divorce was finalized on June 4, 1920.

I find it terrible that Ida moved all the way out to Oklahoma to start a new life after the early death of her first husband and marries someone that she finds that she can't even live with. I never met or knew Ida personally as she died long before I was born, so I do not know what kind of character she had or if she was an honest person. I would hope that she was a fine and upstanding person but one never knows their own relatives, especially those that they never met. So, with that said, I also wonder if this was just Ida's story and if she could have exaggerated at all. Possibly John was not the best husband but was he so bad that they needed to divorce? Well, as you will see in my next post Ida must have reconsidered because she remarried John almost exactly to the day a year later of when the divorce was finalized.

The photo I am including with this post is of John Talbert Renow Ladd. It is a little grainy but it is only 1 of 3 photo's I have of him. I do not know when this photo was taken or where it was taken.

Ida Issadore Boughner Goes West!

I continue to chronicle the life of my Great-Great-Grandmother Ida Issadore Boughner. After the death of her first husband, John T. Debolt, the family story is that she was invited by her daughter to come out to Sapulpa, Creek County, Oklahoma. So, Ida went out for a visit sometime between the years 1907-1915. While there she met and married John Talbert Renow Ladd, also known as John T.R. Ladd. They married on 1 May 1915 according to their marriage record. Also according to the marriage record, Ida gave her residence as Clarksburg, West Virginia. Evidently, she had not completely made the move out to Oklahoma by this time but she soon would. The relationship of Ida and John T.R. Ladd seems to have been a roller coaster ride. Within 6 years they would marry each other two different times and also divorce each other two different times.

I can only imagine how lost Ida must have felt after losing her first husband of 27 years and the father of her children. I have often wondered if John T.R. Ladd was the first man to show Ida attention and she gravitated toward it. Needless to say their relationship was very rocky and according to the first set of divorce papers, Ida accused John T.R. Ladd of being abusive. Not sure why she married him again if the charge of abuse was true but she remarry him within a year of divorcing him. I have yet to obtain a copy of the second divorce but it occured sometime between 1921-1930.

I am including a copy of Ida and John T.R. Ladd's first marriage record.

My next post will continue the saga of the Ida and John T.R. Ladd's lives together.

Ida Issadore Boughner Loses Her Husband

Continuing with the life of Ida Issadore Boughner, my great-great-grandmother on my paternal side. I need to mention here that the posts I am making consists of the research that I have completed to date. I have many holes of missing information that I need to fill in with more research but I wanted to lay down her life as I know it.

John T. and Ida Issadore Debolt continued to live in the Wetzel County, West Virginia area up to the year 1907. The year 1907 was a tragic year for the Debolt family. John T. Debolt died on 21 August 1907 in Clarington, Monroe County, Ohio. It is uncertain at this time when the Debolt family had moved to the Monroe County area, if they did move there. I have considered the possibility that they could have been visiting family when John died. More research into that aspect needs to be done.

There is no surviving death certificate for John T. Debolt and I have not found a death announcement in the newspapers. The family story is that he cut his foot during a major flood that took place in August 1907 and that he died from blood poisoning. I continue to try to find information to confirm this story. I will detail John's life in a future post thread. I can only imagine how this death effected the family. The Debolt's had 7 children and at the time of John's death, Ida would have been left with 3 of those children that would have been minors ranging in age of 8-15 years old. Their only son, Stephen Thaddeus Debolt was 15 at the time of his father's death and knowing the wrong turns that Stephen took in his life and his own tragic and mysterious death, I wonder if his father's death and absence in this life made a profound impact that caused his life to be so tragic.

I am posting a photo of John T. Debolt. This is the only known image of John that has been documented to date. I believe that this image was created around 1900-1905 date range.

In my next post I will start to document Ida's new life in Creek County, Oklahoma!